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Archive for August, 2010

Tick Tock Tick Tock… The clock is ticking

Friday, August 27th, 2010

How often do you find yourself procrastinating?  That the project due next week can wait.  That the fun time with your family can wait.  That the visit to your elderly parents can wait.  That the health screening can wait.  That the meal with your best friend can wait.  That your reading can wait.  That your dreams can wait.

Our time on earth is limited.  We do not live forever.  Yet, we seem to forget this and live as if there is always a tomorrow.  We postpone the things we need to do, the time we need to spend with our friends and loved ones as well as our dreams, thinking that time is always on our side.  And we tell ourselves that, one of these fine days, we will find a time to do it.

It is common for students to wait till the last minute before preparing for examination.  It is common for tax payers to file their tax return on the very day of the deadline.  It is not surprising to see passengers arriving at the boarding gate seconds before the gate closes. (By the way, this comes to my mind as I am typing this article sitting at the airport waiting for my flight which has been delayed by an hour) However, the problem is, we do not know when the gate will close on us.  There is no guarantee that we will live up to a ripe age of 80 years old, or for that matter, any age.

Don’t gamble with time.  The clock is ticking, better hurry.  Don’t get busy over things that will not matter at the end of the journey.  Do the things that are close to your heart.  Make time for your loved ones.  If there is something that you have always wanted to do, but have not done so for one reason or another, hesitate no further.  Do it before it’s too late as there will not be a last call for boarding to your next destination.

Every person in your path has a gift for you – realize and receive it

Monday, August 16th, 2010

It is not always necessary to have a teacher to learn something. Be a learner and you shall learn from every other person in your life. LIFE IS ALWAYS TEACHING, ONLY IF YOU ARE LEARNING.

An uncooperative colleague may be a pain in the neck. An unfriendly neighbor may dampen your day. An impatient driver who cuts into your way may spoil your mood. A stranger may make your day. A teacher may believe in your potential despite you coming in at the bottom in class. All these people have one thing in common for you. They have all have a gift for you but only if you are open to receiving it. Be thankful that every one of them appears in your path at the most precise moment. Your job is to receive and uncover the gift.

The next time you are negatively affected by someone and you feel upset, angry or hurt over it, do pause for a moment. Coax your negative feelings. Ask them to remain quiet for a moment while you unwrap the gift. Try to put yourself in the person’s shoes and understand why he is acting that way. Maybe he is under tremendous pressure and that has severely crippled his ability to behave in a way that he should have. Perhaps he is suffering great pain and emotionally dehydrated and does not know any better way to release his pain and emotions.  What can you learn here? That we should not let our extreme negativity infiltrate others. That we should not let our extreme negativity cripple ourselves. That we need to learn how to turn our negativity into positivity, into possibilities. Or perhaps he is angel-sent to force you off your current track so that you can embark on a more purposeful track.

The not-so-nice will come into your life with a gift. Be thankful and learn the lessons. Likewise, the nice will also come into your life with a gift. Be thankful and make good use of the gift. Say you may have been discriminated at work over your age/height/weight/looks etc.  Subsequently, you landed a new job with an enlightened employer who recognizes your strength and potential and gives you opportunities to perform and grow. Be thankful for the gift. Do your part. Stretch yourself. Elevate yourself to the next level. Make good use of the gift.